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It is called cluster B culture. People who have cluster B personality disorders, such as narcissistic personality disorder, use negative emotions to dominate, manipulate and control people. Narcissists often also suffer from impulsive disorders such as ADHD. They often make impulsive decisions that hurt the team, insist that their way is the only way, and use narcissistic rage to punish people who question them. Calm rational people who question what is going on are attacked and forced to leave the organization.

The only way to avoid this is to simply state that it is wrong to use negative emotions to control people. State that it is wrong to use anger to punish people who disagree with you. Also state that it is wrong to play the victim someone criticizes you.

I have also never heard of such a small business having a HR director. Maybe if everyone was working to stock shelves and wait on customers they would not have gone out of business.

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